Oh fights!

I wish I could learn to talk to my husband better.  I wish he could learn to talk to me better.  I love him so much, but there are so many things that frustrate me.  He's such a wonderful dad and he's so funny and smart.  It would be nice to really be able to talk to each other.  Any suggestions would be heard and taken in advisement.  I might take what you say or use part of it or just read it.  But anything would be better than what we're doing right now.  I just want to feel closer to my dear hubby.